You know what people never seem to give enough of? Cards. More specifically, handmade cards with heartfelt messages that really show the person what you mean to them. Of course, thoughtfully selected presents do that too, but as a man of words, I'd rather drown in the beauty of a sincere message that I can savour when I'm feeling down or a little bit lonely, than the plasticity and impermanence of wrapping paper.
Nonetheless, I enjoy giving and, more importantly, receiving presents as well. Really though, what I relish at the start of every mathematical new year of my life are the luminous memories - of beautiful presents, the joy of receiving something you want and even better, the joy of receiving something you didn't even know you want.
Over the years, I've found that I'm quite good at 1) making cards, and 2) selecting, wrapping and giving presents. I love it when others do these things for me as well, but unfortunately, not everyone has my 'talent'. Since my birthday is coming up and I have an endless list of wants, I think it'll be helpful for some people in my life to take a look at this nifty gift guide on what will make JH really,
really happy.
Let's start with the basics. With anything material and physical, its colour should ideally be one I appreciate. Everyone has their favourite colour or colours, and for someone who cannot settle for just one, I have many.
Of course, there are the classic black, white and grey, but they're complementary colours.
As mentioned before, I have an endless list of wants, and through each year, this list stays almost the same. The mainstays are clothes, bags, shoes and skincare products. Special guest stars include shades, perfume and cosmetics.
I have many favourite brands as well, and though they're not necessarily all of the best quality, I do not mind very much as long as it lasts well, for at least 1.5 years. For clothes, bags and shoes, if a trip to my favourite shop in BKK (it's a secret) is not possible, then I'll visit Zara, HE by Mango or H&M. Occasionally, I visit Fred Perry but 1) I cannot afford to pay more than $100 for an article of clothing, and 2) its tops and shoes are a favourite among certain people, thus rendering them undesirable. There are many brilliant brands out there as well, but whether I buy clothes from them depends on the specific item.
I like to get my skincare products from Kiehl's and Belif. I'm currently using the Aqua Bomb from Belif, and it has been quite good so far; no complaints. Kiehl's Midnight Recovery Essence is amazing. I just got my second bottle, but haven't started on it yet. One bottle has lasted me about 10 months, so it's bang for your buck.
So with the intros out of the way, what has caught JH's eye this year? Wait no further. In no order whatsoever...
I have a sling bag, a backpack which transforms into a tote and sling bag as well... I also have my trusty Fred Perry Holdall, but it's two years old and not leather. A new leather holdall that goes with everything will be well used and a permanent part of my wardrobe. This bag from Fred Perry is beautiful - pure black, understated and looks simple and classy. My only gripe is that it doesn't have a front pocket, where I like to throw my essentials like my wallet, lip balm and perfume.
I'm still in my leather phase, where I wanna get beautiful leather goods. This Fred Perry Billfold Wallet is 100% leather, and in brown (read: not boring). I like my wallets to be as slim as possible, but few wallets look good with a money clip. The leather fringe detail on this wallet also keeps things interesting and non-generic. To go really, really slim, we need to eliminate every other item except for the cash, and that's where The Fold comes in:
So simple and elegant. Inconvenient, I admit but... it's nice, isn't it?
Finally, the last type of leather product I enjoy looking at - the belt.
Makr has lots of beautiful leather goods, but I really like this belt:
It's very understated and simple as well, and will go well with almost anything, especially my favourite blue pants.
I love my shorts to be just that - short. Of course, they shouldn't be too short or baggy, because then I'll just look like I'm a child playing grown up. I like Fred Perry's shorts, because they are short (such a poet!), slim and plain.
These are a little bit expensive for shorts, but it's really difficult to find shorts I actually like. I don't have a pair of shorts in this colour, but it's go well with most of my clothes and be just right for Singapore's sunny weather! Pair it with a nice blue or white tee shirt, shades and a pair of loafers and you're good to go.
I have almost everything one needs to look good, and I'm not usually one for accessories. Recently though, I've been thinking about wearing a watch. I have small wrists for a guy, and it's difficult to find a watch that looks good
and fits. I saw this on
High Snobiety yesterday, and have been thinking about it since:
Doesn't it look good? I can only hope it looks nice on my wrist. :)
Of course, a present does not have to be material. It could be an experience, such as a dinner, that is enjoyable and memorable. And experiences are easily made more enjoyable with a good bottle of wine or champagne. For my birthday, I plan to have lunch at Basilico @ The Regent. It has an Italian buffet which I heard is simply amazing. Where did I hear this from? None other than
Lady Iron Chef. I swear, going on this site this holiday will be the death of my wallet. Actually, my wallet is permanently damaged and dead. I think it's pretty much a fossil right now. But there you go. Hopefully this guide is helpful for anyone looking to buy a present for anyone (preferably a guy though) in July, or even the next few months.
More important than the gift is the thought. A really thoughtful gift bought with love and sincerity will definitely be well appreciated. I believe it will shine through no matter what. With that, it's FRIDAY! Have a good weekend.